Isn’t it time that women stopped sabotaging each other and started to work together? The predatory behaviour of some women setting out to “take from” other women or “show up” other women doesn’t get any of us anywhere. It doesn’t help women to progress and it doesn’t help men to progress. Why do you think men are so successful in this world? It has nothing to do with them being better or stronger or having more brains than a women, it has a lot to do with the clear code of conduct between men – it was once known as ”gentlemanly behaviour”, maybe this is not the current code, but there is a code, a way that men have of behaving and supporting each other that is positive. Men often stick together when they are out looking for a female mate so that they have the support of their mates - ”hunting in packs”. It is about more than just hunting. They support each other - in funny ways sometimes, like one mate saying to the other, ”hey Johnno, she looks nice” to inappropriate ways that demean women – nevertheless there is a support of each other for the end game. Although women have an infinite capacity to give positive support of other women, there is a behaviour that sees many women compete against each other to the detriment of each other and ultimately to the detriment of themselves. Read the rest of this entry
Jul12
